“If you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth to someone, you have already forgotten your value.”  – Unknown

It is important at this time in history to remain positive.  This is a daily event, a moment-by-moment, awareness that each of us has a choice in this life and we have a choice of faith over fear.

In today’s world, there are so many things that we might fear; economic collapse, end of the world revelations, am I good enough, does anyone love me.

All of these ideas are true struggles within our soul, a soul rich with blessings that we often forget to count.  Recently I came across something that had me to write down 10 things I am thankful for each day.  In this same book, I was reminded to find a rock, a rock that offers strength each night as I recount the best thing that happened to me on any given day.  Yet, we are so filled with worry, we miss out on the blessings of life and all that it offers.

Getting involved in another’s drama brings us down; it can suffocate us if we allow it to.  Yet, our heart breaks for these people, and our heart breaks for our own soul.

Blood Moon
This upcoming blood moon can be a reminder

This upcoming Blood Moon can be a reminder that the heavens are with us in all of our struggles, all of our concerns.  The idea that the planet Venus is going from a backwards motion to a more direct route invites us to open our heart.  Venus invites us to look at the good within our own soul where we determine what and whom it is that we truly love right now in this moment.  My hope is that you find that this Venus motion helps you to look within your own soul and see the goodness that lies at the bottom of your own heart.  Continue reading Self-Love

Energy Vampires

” There are some people who, if they don’t already know, you can’t tell ’em. “Yogi Berra

Our bodies are electrical, producing an energetic environment rich in thoughts, ideas, behaviors and attitudes. All have choices of how their day and life will be.

Yet, at times, someone, from somewhere comes along to challenge your boundaries, and steal your happiness. These negative people are “energy vampires”.

Energy vampires may exhibit a victim like behavior.  This behavior removes them from blame, allowing them to project their wrongs in life onto you.  It is always someone else’s fault; victim energy vampires seldom realize they have options to help themselves.  Each of us is struggling with different scenarios in life, and at times we feel downhearted.  Positive people find ways to lift from the rut; victim energy vampires wish to stay in the rut.

Energy vampires often choose to ignore or never gain control of their emotions.  Emotions are the basis for our actions and reactions in life.  These people are liabilities, especially in relationships.  What is that saying, the first time you do something it is a mistake, the second time it is a choice.  Accountability is part of spiritual growth.  Habitual energy vampires who choose to deny emotions stay stuck in their story to gain attention and sympathy.  This robs you of your precious time, energy and positive way of thinking.  Empathy is great but sympathy means you take on another’s problem so the vampire does not have to deal with it.

Our actions and reactions
Emotions are the basis for our actions and reactions in life

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